Islamic Fiqh > Marriage and family > The pillars and conditions of nikah
Marriage pillars per the schools: the formula, the wali (guardian), the woman and her spouse, the witnesses, and validity conditions.
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Updated on 31 August 2026 at 3:55 AM
The nikah is expressed through an offer and an acceptance. The past tense is safest: the guardian says "I marry my daughter to you", and the husband answers "I accept". The majority of jurists (Hanafis and Malikis) also accept the present tense and the imperative; the marriage is never concluded by a mere gesture, as the four schools agree to forbid it, out of respect for the standing of women. For the Shafi'is, acceptance must follow the offer without a long break; the Hanafis require one sitting when both parties are present.
The majority of jurists, Malikis, Shafi'is and Hanbalis, require a guardian: a woman does not conclude her own marriage, whether virgin or previously married. The Quran blames Maq'il ibn Yasar's brother for refusing to return his sister to her husband (al-Baqara 232). Abu Hanifa, on the other hand, allows a free adult woman to conduct her own contract. The guardian must be free and Muslim; a non-Muslim cannot be the guardian of a Muslim woman, by consensus. Discernment and good conduct are not required by the majority, and a man in ihram does not conclude marriage contracts.
There is no marriage without a guardian and two trustworthy witnesses; every marriage concluded otherwise is void. If they dispute, the authority is the guardian of the one who has no guardian.Ibn Hibban 4075 ; ad-Daraqutni 3533 ; al-Bayhaqi 13496
The majority of jurists (Hanafis, Shafi'is, Hanbalis) take these sound reports as proof: two witnesses are required, so that the marriage is public and protected from denial. Imran ibn Husayn also reported: "There is no marriage without a guardian and two trustworthy witnesses" (Abd ar-Razzaq 10473 ; at-Tabarani).
The Malikis add a rule of their own: a man or woman suffering a serious illness does not conclude a marriage, since an heir could be born or die after the agreement, harming the rights of the other heirs.
In short: a guardian, two witnesses, a clear wording, and spouses free of impediments. These conditions come from the manuals of the four schools; for a precise situation, turn to a qualified scholar.
Offer and acceptance, the wali (guardian) and two witnesses; the mahr is the woman's right, not a validity condition: unnamed, the mahr al-mithl is due.
Valid before Allah but discouraged: the Prophet ordered publicizing marriage (drums, walima) to avoid suspicion (at-Tirmidhi 1089).
No: khitba is a promise, not a contract; either party may break before nikah, with courtesy (see the khitba page).